I have been was trying to understand for the past few days as to why people around want to spoil my moments of joy by expressing their disatisfaction of how things were handled. Mujhpe Toofaan Uthaaye Logon Ne
Muft Baithhe Bithhaaye Logon Ne
Kar Diya Apne Aane Jaane Ke
Tazkiren Jaayein Jaayein Logon Ne
Mujhpe Toofaan Uthaaye Logon Ne
And then my search on www leads me to this Yahoo Q&A -
Resolved Question
Wedding to please others....impossible to make everyone happy?
I am engaged to a great guy, and I can't wait to marry him. However, planning a wedding has turned into a contest in how many people I can offend. I just want to get married... is there a way to do that beautifully without the need for others to be offended by things that are/not being done?
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker
Bottom line - it's your wedding. If you're footing the bill, then no one can dictate how things are done. Sit down with your fiance, and you two decide what you want. Then, TOGETHER, as a team, tell your family and friends what your decisions are. If they try to make suggestions, gently tell them you appreciate their input but you two have made up your minds and hope that they will support your decision. You two need to be able to look back at your wedding day and be elated as to how it went - not ticked 'cause you didn't do what you two really wanted.
Congrats and good luck!
So here's me wishing myself good luck to remain sane enough to make the most appropriate choices in a hope that..
Aap Ko… mujhse… gila hota na… shikva hota…
Meri majboori ko…. gar aap ne… samjha hota… samjha hota
2 comments:
Relax sweety! it is all in the game and it always happens. not just with weddings...until people have a mouth they are gonna use it, either to crib or to tell you that they loved it to see you happy. When it is the latter, you know 'in viky's language'- beyond human.. u know wat i mean right?:)
Yeah Archie.. Guess i will have to try and not let these stuff matter.. hmmm.................
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