matters...

Voltaire said – “I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it”

This is something I strongly relate to…. Not literally word by word.. I jus feel that everyone is free to make their choices and even if I don’t think what they are doing is right.. that doesn’t mean I should stop loving them the way I do……

But… by not stoping them from the harm they are causing themselves, am I doing the right thing… They explain their actions with the need, to satisfy themselves.. which I do not feel is wrong…

But just because one doesn’t feel guilty and has the freedom to do any act to satisfy themsleves… can they make ANY choice available???

If I say yes.... then no matter what a person does, I should not let it affect me..

And if I say no… where is the unconditionality I am striving to achieve…


And here a friEND reminds me “what matters, is how much YOU let something matter, otherwise nothing else....."